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Ingrid Turner's avatar

Your writing is breathtaking.

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Kathy Brown's avatar

Oh wow, what a gorgeous compliment. 🥲 Thank you so much Ingrid!

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Joanna Stass's avatar

This is beautiful Kathy! ❤️

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Kathy Brown's avatar

Thank you so much Jo!

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Sue Kittow's avatar

Thank you for writing that - I hope it helps a lot of people demystify death. I will never forget being with my husband when he died and it is an incredibly important, moving time. We don’t know what the dying can hear or understand , but I hope I sent him in his way with as much love and courage as I could.

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Kathy Brown's avatar

Thank you so much, Sue. I hope so too - one thing I've become really passionate about since working in hospices is making death less of a taboo subject. It is something that touches us all, and is a very natural part of life. Being with Mike was a transformative experience in so many ways.

Your husband was so lucky to have been loved by you and to have had you there with him at the end. I'm sure you were bloody amazing. X

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Joseph R Mason  BCS DiMAP DiPC's avatar

Hi Kathy, just discovered this, I didn't realise it was you. In case you're wondering who the hell I am, it's Richard, Charlotte Browns dad. Wonderfuly descriptive and poignent piece of prose. Well done you. If you want to see my rubish, go to josephmasonauthor.com

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Kathy Brown's avatar

It is me indeed! :) Thank you so much Richard, and thanks for sharing your site too - from what I've read of yours previously, it certainly won't be rubbish!

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Jenna Folarin's avatar

Such a beautiful read ❤️

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Kathy Brown's avatar

Thank you so much Jenna!

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Rosa Blanch's avatar

Beautiful ❤️

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Kathy Brown's avatar

Thank you Rosa!

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Fiona Whittaker's avatar

Ooohhh, that last paragraph made me cry. Beautifully written as ever. Thank you for sharing.

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Kathy Brown's avatar

It made me a bit teary writing it too - such a special experience. Thanks so much Fiona!

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Ana Bermingham Doran's avatar

Thank you

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Harriet Toole's avatar

Wow Kathy. Your writing always blows me away, but this piece in particular really got me. So impeccably written and I felt every word. I'll now never forget that our hearing is often the last sense to go. And I think Dr Brooks sounds amazing! Thank you for sharing such a powerful moment with us. What a precious gift you gave Mike 🕊️

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Kirsty Johnston's avatar

Such a beautiful and moving read x

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